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    The Girls Within: A True Story of Triumph over Trauma and Abuse

    Author: Gill Frost

    Rated 5.00 out of 5 based on 3 customer ratings
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    £20.24 – £31.99

    A compelling true story of one woman’s battle with the aftermath of childhood trauma, which gives a gripping account of the often controversial and misunderstood condition of dissociative identity disorder (DID), formerly known as multiple personality disorder. This emotional but ultimately uplifting journey details the unforeseen twists and turns of the effects of therapy and how it can help in coming to terms with the past and its unsettling echoes in the present. Heartwarming and lucid, it’s an inspiring tale for all to read.

    Through its clinical rigour, professional therapists will also gain insight into the various treatment options for DID, including the innovative use of energy therapy. The book contains 32 colour illustrations, including 24 drawings by The Girls.

    Visit Gill Frost’s website for more insights into The Girls Within.

    Read her thought-provoking blog on Healing the wounds of the past.

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    Gill Frost

    ISBN

    9781912691593

    Format

    Paperback, e-Book, Print & e-Book

    Page Extent

    344

    Publication Date

    November 2020

    Subject Areas

    Psychoanalytic Theory, Psychotherapy, Trauma & Abuse

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    Praise for The Girls Within
    ‘The tough subject is handled with extraordinary compassion, and written in a compellingly clear, warm style that will engage laypeople and psychotherapy professionals alike. …
    The twelve-year connection between patient and therapist recounted here is a complex, looping, juddering rollercoaster ride; a journey readers will feel deeply invested in, and much compassion for.’
    Joanne Owen, LoveReading.co.uk

    The star of this book is an extraordinary, bright-spirited, and entertaining six-year-old girl, called Little Vivvi, who experienced shocking abuse from members of her family. Yet Little Vivvi lives within Vivian, a middle-aged woman who has struggled with DID for many years. The challenging process of psychotherapy is laid bare, as Little Vivvi wrestles with overwhelming memories of childhood abuse. Alongside talking therapy, energy treatment, which she calls Wooshing, is utilised to astonishing effect, becoming the enigmatic ingredient that finally enables Little Vivvi to find relief from the distress and fear that had dominated her existence.

    As therapy seems to draw to a close, Izzy appears. A very sensitive, thoughtful and mature eight-year-old, Izzy too needs love, support and treatment to speak about her trauma. After overcoming her understandable distrust, Izzy enables an exceptional ending to the therapeutic journey, far beyond anything Vivian and her therapist, Gill, could have dreamed.

    Little Vivvi and Izzy will make you want to laugh out loud as well as cry. Their story teaches so much about suffering, dissociation and survival. Their aim is to enlighten, inspire and offer hope to others through reading their incredible tales, which reveal the astonishing power of The Girls within.

    About the author

    About the author

    Gill Frost started her career as a teacher and went on to be a counsellor and psychotherapist for 35 years. Her first therapeutic training and work experience was with RELATE, where she worked mainly as a couples counsellor for 10 years. It was at this point that Gill decided to study for a masters degree in psychodynamic counselling, at the University of Birmingham, in order to work at greater depth with individuals.

    Gill’s degree opened up opportunities for her to work as a student counsellor and trainer at Warwick and Coventry Universities for several years. It also enabled her to return to the University of Birmingham as a clinical tutor and lecturer, on the same course where she had been a student.

    It was over 20 years ago that Gill set up in private practice. During this time she worked with a growing number of clients who presented with childhood trauma and abuse. As a result, she became increasingly interested in dissociative disorders, including dissociative identity disorder (DID).

    Gill benefitted greatly from workshops and seminars provided by individuals such as Valerie Sinason, Suzette Boon, and Carolyn Spring, who are experts in the field of DID. Additionally, Gill undertook training in an energy psychotherapy called advanced integrative therapy (AIT), becoming an accredited AIT therapist. Later, she also completed Level 1 of the internal family systems (IFS) training. Collectively, these experiences gave her the understanding and necessary skills to work more effectively with clients who were traumatised by early abuse. It also enabled Gill to write her book, The Girls Within.

    Contents

    Contents

    Introduction: Distant memories – devastated lives

    Part I: The comings and goings of Little Vivvi

    1. First meeting
    2. New room
    3. Trauma treatment
    4. Telephone talks
    5. Greek tragedy
    6. The aftermath
    7. The problem with being a girl
    8. Dark nights
    9. Christmas 2013
    10. Cabin fever
    11. Preparing ground
    12. Breaking news
    13. The fallout
    14. The three faces of Vivian
    15. Just Angry
    16. New boundaries
    17. Increasing integration
    18. The book
    19. An exorcism
    20. The fear of being alone
    21. Role reversal
    22. Mothers and daughters
    23. Team work
    24. Talk! Talk!

    Part II: And then there was Izzy

    25. Black shadows of the night
    26. Striking a deal
    27. Out of hiding
    28. Belief after betrayal
    29. Poor Baby
    30. A slipped disc
    31. Internal family systems
    32. The joy of being inside out
    33. Night terrors
    34. A burning rage
    35. Down to the wire
    36. Beyond the chequered flag

    Postscript
    Epilogue by Vivian
    The last word from Little Vivvi
    Family trees
    Acknowledgements
    About the author
    References
    Glossary
    Resources

    3 reviews for The Girls Within: A True Story of Triumph over Trauma and Abuse

    1. Joanne Owen, LoveReading.co.uk – 06/04/2020

      ‘Written by counsellor, psychotherapist and clinical tutor Gill Frost, The Girls Within relates the moving case study of Vivian, a woman struggling with the impact of extreme childhood trauma. The tough subject is handled with extraordinary compassion, and written in a compellingly clear, warm style that will engage laypeople and psychotherapy professionals alike. While Vivian’s childhood experiences and resulting adulthood disorders are affectingly harrowing, the restorative twelve-year relationship between patient and therapist brings waves of joy.
      ‘After a horrific childhood, Vivian went on to a nursing career with no signs of trauma until she and her husband began couple therapy. It was then Vivian first spoke of the emotional, physical and sexual abuse she suffered as a child, and began to experience flashbacks, seizures and dissociative identity disorder (DID). As the author explains, “Dissociating is something we all do at times when we are feeling uncomfortable or in pain, either physically or emotionally… in order to relieve the discomfort we would otherwise experience”, but in extreme cases like Vivian’s, “dissociation can evolve into dissociative identity disorder (DID).”
      ‘This tells the story of two girls living within Vivian: six-year-old Little Vivvi (whose drawings are featured in the book) and teenage Izzy, and of the innovative therapies that spoke to Vivian during therapy, most notably Advanced Integrative Therapy, a form of “energy psychology” that holistically links body and mind, and draws on traditional knowledge like chakras. The twelve-year connection between patient and therapist recounted here is a complex, looping, juddering rollercoaster ride; a journey readers will feel deeply invested in, and much compassion for.’

    2. Alistair Ross, Associate Professor – Psychotherapy, Oxford University – 15/04/2020

      ‘It takes a unique kind of courage to go to deep places with a client who becomes a constellation of clients. Gill Frost has that courage, allied to the bravery of Vivian, Little Vivvi, Izzy, and others. The result is a compelling account of therapy that touches the soul.’

    3. Melanie Goodwin, co-founder and chair of First Person Plural – 15/04/2020

      ‘This book is a gift to people living and working with dissociative identity disorder. Thank you to Vivian and all her internal family for allowing Gill to share their incredible journey. The genuineness and power of this story captures the innate drive to survive a childhood that is beyond horrendous.
      ‘Gill’s honesty with her own challenging journey, which runs parallel to that of Vivian and her internal family, allows the reader to share her roller coaster of emotions: elation, confusion, total despair, sadness, frustration, and, at times, peace and joy.
      ‘Clinicians reading this book will welcome how Gill continually emphasises the importance of the therapeutic relationship with all the parts and how, when this is firmly established and in partnership with Vivian, she introduces advanced integrative therapy (AIT), “Wooshing” to little Vivvi and “Calming Therapy” to Izzy. This offers a unique insight into how other therapies can support the core therapy when the conditions are right. Gill’s respectful curiosity and loving approach at all times is validating for each part, enabling trust to be experienced for the first time in their lives. Her firm and consistent boundaries, which are at the heart of the healing process, provide the bedrock on which this amazing journey unfolds. Making the links to difficulties in adult Vivian’s life helps us all to understand the impact of unresolved childhood abuse that continues to have an impact on every hour of every day.
      ‘This book has captured the way different personalities have developed, how important each role was in survival, and how logical they are within the context of Vivian’s childhood. The beauty of this story is tangible on every page and I want to thank Vivian, Little Vivvi, Izzy, and the other parts for allowing us to hear and share their story. I also want to thank the whole team because this book will offer hope and insight to survivors, therapists, and many others. Through the humane storytelling, we can all, whatever depths we plunge to, know things can change and to always hold onto this.
      ‘“Tough emotions are our contact with life,” says Susan David, psychologist – be mindful of this when reading this book.’

    4. Phil Mollon, PhD, psychoanalyst and energy psychotherapist. author of ‘Multiple Selves, Multiple Voices’ – 15/04/2020

      ‘Gill Frost, with her client Vivian and internal family, have written a remarkable book – a full and detailed account of a successful but lengthy psychotherapy of dissociative identity disorder (DID), resulting in a harmonious association of previously dissociated personality parts. This engaging narrative describes the inevitable challenges to the therapist’s assumptions, theoretical framework, and technique presented by DID – and the need to adapt and respond to the particular traumas, roles and functions, and age-specific cognitions of different dissociative alters. A crucial component was the use of an energy psychology modality, known as AIT but internally called ‘Whooshing’. The resulting text is a very significant contribution to the literature in the three areas of trauma, DID, and energy psychotherapy.’

    5. Dr Valerie Sinason 2016 Lifetime Achievement Award ISSTD – 15/04/2020

      ‘This is an inspirational book which tells gripping, interweaving real-life stories. First, it is about the respectful relationship between a thoughtful therapist and a courageous patient (and parts of a patient) with dissociative identity disorder. Second, with the subject hardly included in UK trainings, it helpfully shows Gill Frost’s responsible and reflective ways of making sense of what is happening, the hopes and hurdles. Third, we witness the hard work and integrity of all “the girls within” as they dare to tell their stories and offer their pieces of the jigsaw. At times harrowing, although never gratuitously, and ultimately hopeful, the unfolding account of “the girls within” will help professionals and survivors alike.’

    6. Rated 5 out of 5

      Tina Taylor, Warwickshire – 13/11/2020

      This is a truly amazing book. It’s a fascinating, gripping and emotional read and at the end I felt privileged to have been able to share and understand Vivian, and the Girls’ journey through Gill Frost’s brilliant writing. You don’t have to be a trained therapist to enjoy this book. Just read and be incredibly moved by the triumphant outcome.

    7. Rated 5 out of 5

      Mary Ing, Midlands (verified owner) – 14/11/2020

      This is an achingly tragic story which ends happily. The clarity and vividness of the writing enables the reader, whether professionally trained or not, to make the incredibly difficult journey alongside Vivian and her alters. It depicts the huge range of emotions, trauma and turmoil experienced by both the client and the therapist over many years. It is through the love and dedication of everyone involved, which brings about the satisfactory and hopeful ending. A brilliant read.

    8. Rated 5 out of 5

      Carol Dougill – retired head teacher – 17/12/2020

      ‘Although I have had a long career in education, as a teacher, and head teacher, and have been a special needs co-ordinator, nothing quite prepared me for finding out about Dissociative Identity Disorder (DID). When a close friend of mine was diagnosed, I was pleased that she could confide in me and when she told me about The Girls Within I was pleased to find a book that would answer many of my questions, written in a way that a non-specialist could access.
      ‘The Girls Within is a book for everyone with an interest in DID. It is a compassionate, fascinating and heart-warming book that takes its reader on a journey of enlightenment, capturing the courageous pathway that Vivian, Little Vivvi and Izzy travelled, sharing through Gill their ‘healing’. Thank you for allowing me an insight into your world and also for giving hope to many.’

    9. Dr Jane Bailey – 13/01/2021

      This is a fascinating book! I am impressed by the massive amount of time and effort that both Gill and Vivian devoted to achieving the calming and integration of Vivian’s internal family and it is an absorbing and compelling read. As a doctor (now retired) I had never heard of Dissociative Identity Disorder and if I had met Vivian as a patient I would probably have diagnosed Schizophrenia. Although the book is primarily for mental health care professionals it should be of interest more widely and will hopefully increase the diagnosis of this condition.

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